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<channel><title><![CDATA[Oldenburg Franciscan Center, Retreats, Spiritual Direction, Counseling & Workshops - Blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/blog]]></link><description><![CDATA[Blog]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2026 08:26:19 -0700</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[December 14th, 2018]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/blog/december-14th-2018]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/blog/december-14th-2018#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 14 Dec 2018 17:14:17 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/blog/december-14th-2018</guid><description><![CDATA[&ldquo;Searching For the Newborn King&rdquo;&#8203;  &nbsp;&ldquo;Where is the newborn king of the Jews?&rdquo;How do I seek out the Lord? What is the best way for me to draw closer to Him?Jesus, show me the paths that lead me to you.&nbsp; &nbsp;&ldquo;We saw his star at its rising and have come to do him homage.&rdquo;What beacons of light and hope shine in my life? &nbsp;Am I actually looking for them? Who are the people that lead me to Christ?Lord, thank you for the people you put in my life [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2 class="wsite-content-title"><strong>&ldquo;Searching For the Newborn King&rdquo;</strong><br />&#8203;</h2>  <div class="paragraph"><strong>&nbsp;&ldquo;Where is the newborn king of the Jews?&rdquo;</strong><br />How do I seek out the Lord? What is the best way for me to draw closer to Him?<br /><em>Jesus, show me the paths that lead me to you.&nbsp; </em><br />&nbsp;<br /><strong>&ldquo;We saw his star at its rising and have come to do him homage.&rdquo;</strong><br />What beacons of light and hope shine in my life? &nbsp;Am I actually looking for them? Who are the people that lead me to Christ?<br /><em>Lord, thank you for the people you put in my life&mdash;family, friends, spiritual leaders, and fellow pilgrims.&nbsp; Help us to find ways to strengthen each other in our journey toward you. </em><br />&nbsp;<br /><strong>&ldquo;And you, Bethlehem, land of Judah, are by no means least among the rulers of Judah; since from you shall come a ruler, who is to shepherd my people Israel.&rdquo;</strong><br />Whom do I say Jesus is?&nbsp; What does his birth mean to me?&nbsp; In all the noise and clutter of this world, am I taking enough time to reflect on life&rsquo;s most important questions?<br /><em>Jesus, in your mercy and love, continue to guide me toward my life&rsquo;s purpose.&nbsp; Give me the courage to do Your will.</em><br />&nbsp;<br /><strong>&ldquo;And behold, the star that they had seen at its rising preceded them, until it came and stopped over the place where the child was.&rdquo;</strong><br />Whom do I follow?&nbsp; What things or ideas do I pay most attention to?&nbsp; What are the signs that point me to you?<br /><em>God, help me to recognize you in all things.&nbsp; Teach me how to stay focused on what is holy and good.&nbsp; Remind me to look for your light when faced with difficult situations or decisions.&nbsp; Guide my thoughts and actions.</em><br />&nbsp;<br /><strong>&ldquo;They</strong> <strong>were overjoyed at seeing the star, and on entering the house they saw the child with Mary, his mother.&rdquo;</strong><br />In what ways can I model the Holy Family?<br /><em>Jesus, help me to choose happiness.&nbsp; Let me be content with the person I am; the person you created. Help me to accept the circumstances of my life with joy.&nbsp; </em><br />&nbsp;<br /><strong>&ldquo;Then they opened their treasures and offered him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh.&rdquo;</strong><br />What are the things I value most?&nbsp; Do I take those &ldquo;treasures&rdquo; for granted?&nbsp; How can I show gratitude for my life?<br /><em>Lord, thank you for loving me.&nbsp; Help me follow you faithfully.&nbsp; Continue to show me ways in which I can be a gift for others.&nbsp; You are my treasure.&nbsp; Amen.</em><br />&nbsp;<br /><em>Sally Meyer</em><br />&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[PAROUSIA!]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/blog/-parousia]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/blog/-parousia#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2016 14:39:41 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/blog/-parousia</guid><description><![CDATA[ Not long ago, I sat in my New Testament Greek class listening to my teacher discuss parousia. In a few concise, but loaded words, parousia, the Greek version of the Latin advent, means &ldquo;coming,&rdquo; &ldquo;arrival&rdquo; and also &ldquo;presence.&rdquo; &nbsp;How strange that this word can simultaneously refer to something that has happened, is yet to happen and now is. Jesus is, has come. Jesus is coming. Jesus is always here.&nbsp;This thought also led me to another thought &hellip; t [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:709px;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/uploads/1/1/8/9/11896324/811983.jpeg?691" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;">Not long ago, I sat in my New Testament Greek class listening to my teacher discuss <em>parousia.</em> In a few concise, but loaded words, <em>parousia, </em>the Greek version of the Latin advent, means &ldquo;coming,&rdquo; &ldquo;arrival&rdquo; and also &ldquo;presence.&rdquo; &nbsp;How strange that this word can simultaneously refer to something that has happened, is yet to happen and now is<em>.</em> Jesus is, has come. Jesus is coming. Jesus is always here.<br />&nbsp;<br />This thought also led me to another thought &hellip; that of babies. I have had three of them. As each baby grew inside, I could feel its flutters and turnings under a hand on my belly, the shallow depth of stretched muscle, membrane and skin. There was a thin veil of separation between us, a bit of human flesh. But a baby was on its way. This child I&rsquo;d never met was right there <em>within</em> me and not yet arrived.<br />&nbsp;<br />Every parent knows the thrill of first seeing a long awaited child. It is pure amazement, even if the baby bears striking resemblance to mother or father. There is familiarity, but in a previously unknown and unique package &hellip; a fresh and unexpected revelation. In the months and years to come, we see more of this one who is always present to us, but whose depth and complexity grows ever more richly apparent.<br />&nbsp;<br />Recently, I heard a priest talking about a part of the Mass (epiclesis) where he invokes Christ&rsquo;s presence upon the Communion elements and bells ring to signify the moment. He said that when he was a little boy sitting in the pew, his mother would tell him, &ldquo;When you hear the bells, Jesus is coming.&rdquo; A day or two after I heard this, it dawned on me that epiclesis is a two-part Greek word. <em>Epi, </em>means &ldquo;upon&rdquo; or &ldquo;on&rsquo;. It indicates personal touching. <em>Clesis </em>is from <em>ka-lei-o </em>meaning &ldquo;to call.&rdquo; During the epiclesis, the priest calls for the real presence of Christ to come upon the bread and the wine &hellip; to touch it. The <em>epiclesis</em> happens in every Mass a million places around the world. It has been happening over and over for 2,000 years. Christ has come to us, but he is always still coming.<br />&nbsp;<br />Like a baby whose arrival we await, Christ is in our midst and yet always about to arrive. &ldquo;At present, we see indistinctly, as in a mirror &hellip;&rdquo; (1 Corinthians 13:12). The veil of our human flesh prevents us from discerning the full revelation of him. And in his kindness, his own human flesh has veiled us from the burning brightness of His Majesty. Yet, as we call upon him in prayer, receive him in Communion, encounter him in Scripture, live in his Body, the Church, and are enlivened by the breath of his Spirit, we know him more &hellip; little by little. Christ is always coming to us until the day of his final coming when we will know him fully.<br /><br />by Lisa D.<br /></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA["Longing"﻿]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/blog/longing]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/blog/longing#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 17 Dec 2015 21:32:02 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/blog/longing</guid><description><![CDATA[       &ldquo;When you are in deep darkness, even the smallest light seems bright.&rdquo;I look for lightI&rsquo;m sure it&rsquo;s thereSoft strands in peopleIn lives being livedIn brief momentsA crack of Light breaks throughAnd is magnifiedThrough people&rsquo;s loveAnd kindnessHope holds firmIn melodiesAnd words of songsChrist is present in loving concernIn offerings of heart and selfIn a hugChrist is in the LightChrist IS the LightFind it, see itCapture it, keep itO Gentle LightGuide my eyes  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:left"> <a> <img src="https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/uploads/1/1/8/9/11896324/4679755.jpg?276" alt="Picture" style="width:276;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong><em>&ldquo;When you are in deep darkness, even the smallest light seems bright.&rdquo;</em></strong><br />I look for light<br />I&rsquo;m sure it&rsquo;s there<br />Soft strands in people<br />In lives being lived<br />In brief moments<br />A crack of Light breaks through<br />And is magnified<br />Through people&rsquo;s love<br />And kindness<br />Hope holds firm<br />In melodies<br />And words of songs<br />Christ is present in loving concern<br />In offerings of heart and self<br />In a hug<br />Christ is in the Light<br />Christ <em>IS </em>the Light<br />Find it, see it<br />Capture it, keep it<br />O Gentle Light<br />Guide my eyes to see<br />Help me find strength<br />In just a sliver<br />Shine in me, Christ Child<br />Through me, around me<br />Over me<br />Surround me, envelop me<br />Hold me, rest in me<br />Oh Desire of the Nations<br />Love me.<br />&nbsp;<br /><strong><em>&ldquo;God is Light; in Him there is no darkness.&rdquo;</em></strong><br />&#8203;</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Prayer of Supplication: Journeying From Darkness to Light]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/blog/-prayer-of-supplication-journeying-from-darkness-to-light]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/blog/-prayer-of-supplication-journeying-from-darkness-to-light#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2015 09:57:07 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/blog/-prayer-of-supplication-journeying-from-darkness-to-light</guid><description><![CDATA[ O God, I want to step into the light. &nbsp;Take my hand, and draw me in.Show me how to be confident in the ways I can love.&nbsp; Increase my desire to live out the potential that is hidden within my heart.&nbsp;You know these parts of me well.&nbsp; Show me how to magnify your beauty.In the light, I want to be able to stand with joy and gratitude that I am your creation, and you love every part of me.O God, as I take that step out of darkness into the light, reveal what I need to see in mysel [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;z-index:10;width:193px;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/uploads/1/1/8/9/11896324/3062056.jpg?175" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;display:block;">O God, I want to step into the light. &nbsp;Take my hand, and draw me in.<br /><br />Show me how to be confident in the ways I can love.&nbsp; <br />Increase my desire to live out the potential that is hidden within my heart.<br /><br />&nbsp;You know these parts of me well.&nbsp; Show me how to magnify your beauty.<br /><br />In the light, I want to be able to stand with joy and gratitude that I am your creation, and you love every part of me.<br /><br />O God, as I take that step out of darkness into the light, reveal what I need to see in myself. &nbsp;Although I am vulnerable in this place, help me search for your mercy and love with confidence and trust. <br /><br />With outstretched hands, I offer myself to you.&nbsp; As my weaknesses are exposed in this gentle light, transform what is fragile into a blessing of courage and hope for others.<br /><br />I surrender my will, asking you, O God, to help me embrace my true self.&nbsp; Help me to see what you see.&nbsp; Help me to love what you love.<br /><br />In this Sacred Light, shining around me and through me, unite your heart and will with mine. &nbsp;Amen.<br /><br />By Sally Meyer<br /><br /></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[My Dark Night]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/blog/my-dark-night]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/blog/my-dark-night#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2015 09:53:53 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/blog/my-dark-night</guid><description><![CDATA[My Dark NightMy heart sinks. Oh dark night!You have come to scare meIn this lonely path...I fall short in each stepHow mistaken was I to walkIn this silent night...I agonize with each beat of my heartEach breath I takeBrings pain to today...Where has your magnificent smile gone?I remembered the sunThat brought me warmth and light...But that is now a memory!This night won't passHere I am, falling again...Cold and lonelyDeceived in the shadowsThat hide your truth at this dark hour...Take my life!E [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="">My Dark Night</span><br /><br /><br /><span style="">My heart sinks. Oh dark night!</span><br /><span style="">You have come to scare me</span><br /><span style="">In this lonely path...</span><br /><br /><span style="">I fall short in each step</span><br /><span style="">How mistaken was I to walk</span><br /><span style="">In this silent night...</span><br /><br /><span style="">I agonize with each beat of my heart</span><br /><span style="">Each breath I take</span><br /><span style="">Brings pain to today...</span><br /><br /><span style="">Where has your magnificent smile gone?</span><br /><span style="">I remembered the sun</span><br /><span style="">That brought me warmth and light...</span><br /><br /><span style="">But that is now a memory!</span><br /><span style="">This night won't pass</span><br /><span style="">Here I am, falling again...</span><br /><br /><span style="">Cold and lonely</span><br /><span style="">Deceived in the shadows</span><br /><span style="">That hide your truth at this dark hour...</span><br /><br /><span style="">Take my life!</span><br /><span style="">End this misery!</span><br /><span style="">I lament in each second that passes by...</span><br /><br /><span style="">Have pity on me...</span><br /><span style="">A sinner!</span><br /><span style="">Send the moon and the stars</span><br /><span style="">To keep me company</span><br /><span style="">In this desolate night!</span><br /><br /><span style=""><br /></span><br /><span style="">By JA</span></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ripples...]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/blog/ripples]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/blog/ripples#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2015 09:51:37 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/blog/ripples</guid><description><![CDATA[ When we lose someone we love, questions seem to surface, Why did this have to happen to such a good person? Can I envision living my life differently with this new empty place? Do I really know God&rsquo;s purpose for my life? Does what I do really matter?I watched the rays of the sun reflect off the surface of the lake. As I sat at the edge of the water, I felt a deep sense of sadness and loss. I had just left the funeral of my close friend, Annie, and I wanted some time to be alone with my ow [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;z-index:10;width:268px;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.oldenburgfranciscancenter.org/uploads/1/1/8/9/11896324/3239555.jpeg?250" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><strong style=""><em style="">When we lose someone we love, questions seem to surface, Why did this have to happen to such a good person? Can I envision living my life differently with this new empty place? Do I really know God&rsquo;s purpose for my life? Does what I do really matter?</em></strong><br /><span style=""></span><br /><span style=""></span>I watched the rays of the sun reflect off the surface of the lake. As I sat at the edge of the water, I felt a deep sense of sadness and loss. I had just left the funeral of my close friend, Annie, and I wanted some time to be alone with my own thoughts. She loved nature, and I was taking the opportunity to reflect on how grateful I was to have known her.<br /><span style=""></span><br /><span style=""></span>Without focusing on anything in particular, I picked up a small pebble and threw it into the lake. I immediately noticed how the ripples formed a perfect circle and moved outward. I repeated the process several times. Each time I threw a rock (regardless of size), I was amazed at how large the circles of waves became and how long they lasted before they disappeared. It also occurred to me that when the ripples formed, they stayed in proportion to each other. As the waves moved in a steady rhythm on their journey outward, one ripple didn&rsquo;t become misshapen or disconnected from the others.<br /><span style=""></span><br /><span style=""></span>My thoughts returned to Annie. Her life impacted so many people more than I will ever know. Just like the ripples of the waves spreading out, so does Annie&rsquo;s beautiful example of love and faith. Her influence will always be felt by those who knew her and loved her.<br /><span style=""></span><br /><span style=""></span>Those moments sitting by the lake also reminded me of God&rsquo;s providential care. Our lives are impacted by many things, good and bad. But just like the waves of circles in the water, God holds us steady and somehow keeps us connected with one another according to His will. While I may not always recognize and feel this, or understand fully, I believe it. Even in my sadness and grief, I know that I am included in an unending rhythm of God&rsquo;s love and care. I am grateful that there is a merciful God who holds each human heart close to Himself, His Son, and His Spirit, all laboring to create harmony with what is and what is yet to be. In a mysterious, yet beautiful way, watching those waves helped me affirm my worth and purpose in this life and feel secure about Annie&rsquo;s in the next.<br /><span style=""></span><br /><span style=""></span>I have lost a special friend. But by the grace of God, I am more at peace knowing that Annie and I remain connected in a beautiful circle that will be forever.<br /><span style=""></span><br /><span style=""></span>&hellip;Sally<br /><span style=""></span><br /><span style=""></span><br /><br /></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>